Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Blog on Best Effective Couples Therapy in NYC (New York City)

New York City is an exciting metropolis to live in, rich in an engaging, vivacious range of culture, dining, entertainment and the buzz of everyday life in NYC. Living here means there’s certain ways to be with people, including our own couple partner or spouse. Many couples today are not married, and may not be married ever, choosing to remain as loving partners. Others are in the delight of pre marriage, or in the trenches of longer term marriage.

For all these couples, there may be occasions to need therapy with a qualified, very experienced therapist. New York City itself may contribute to this as it is such an exciting and diverting environment it can bring undue pressures on couples, through jobs, living space, and the constant seduction of its lifestyle.

There’s a good, and profound, truism that falling in love is easy. Staying in love is the hard part, the part that needs pretty constant cultivation. Falling in love doesn’t take effort for a couple. It happens naturally, even biologically and brain neurologically. Being in a perpetual state of being in love is both natural (with the right understanding and emotional IQ) and a state needing tending. Daily tending at least. Hourly tending, or minute to minute in the best instances. It takes a sense of selflessness and deep interest in the person you love.

There are occasions when couples are falling out of love, and want to examine what is happening because they would prefer to stay in love, to stay as a couple.

That’s where the relationship counseling of couples therapy comes in. Being able to talk about current situations and emotional states with a counselor who has the trained cognition and experience to recognize patterns or provide transforming insights and suggestions for understanding and changing behavior.


If you feel you’re at an impasse and want to improve your relationship, get in touch with Michael Mongno, very experienced couples therapy expert with Manhattan,NYC offices.